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Dear Bee,

Now that I am back in the UK until Wednesday 25th (two days` time) before I move to Spain, I wonder if I have the courage to ask YOU if you have had any feedback from any of the ladies that I met about how they felt meeting with ME !!  I am almost nervous of asking really as I do not know what they really felt as they are all so polite with the one exception.

....well her needs shall I say. Basically I think she is very attractive, but not someone I personally could survive for long. Still it takes all sorts of people and all sorts of relationships to make this old world go around. I wish her the very best of luck nevertheless, in finding her own personal triumph.

I am still thinking about the lovely time I had with Nong was it ?She came back from her home to see me and we got on very well.

Nok (my original Nok) told me she would like to see me again next time when I telephoned her two days ago. She is totally fascinating to me and I only wish we could meet and talk more easily "one to one" and the English is not really a problem.It teaches ME to speak more slowly and to think my words more carefully, which is only good for me too. I do like her so very much.

Nan I also thought was terribly pretty and very affectionate but I wrote to her also and her reply talked about missing me after I went back to Nepal ???  Maybe she mixed my email address with someone elses as she said she had already waited for 4 months, by coincidence the same time I will have to wait until I am next in Thailand, unless I can manage a separate time during August. She really is a truly lovely girl, who stole a large part of my heart and sent butterflies into my stomach with her beauty and her softness. I`d love to know if she really was writing to me or not ???

Arinyapa is altogether different and a magnificent lady indeed. I really will hope to meet her again. We had lunch at the Marriott by the river travelling there down the river on the hotel shuttle boat. She is wonderful in many ways and she seemed to be happy to stay in touch. She gave me all her details for contacting her which I shall do once I have got to Spain this week.

Pa wants to see me gain and me to her too.

There are others I have not contacted again yet, such as Kae  and Lek, who I think I should meet next time too.

Pum is my sadness. I think she has been the most lovely and suitable girl I have met yet, but I had not realised I think just HOW much she DID like me (even grow to love me) since having seen a few other girls (to try to make up my mind more about her and me, as I mentioned in an earlier mail) . She now wishes to see other men (my loss) before we can decide if we can be together again properly.

Maybe this is all for the best, for the moment, as she too will need to be sure what she really feels. She met me at the airport (with her friend) to say goodbye to me as I flew home, but I didn`t get the chance to say goodbye as I had done last time, understandably I guess !!

She is still a very strong favourite of mine as we had become very close to one another, so much so, that I had asked her to come to Spain to try being with me for a while, as we were so good together, when we "were" together. Maybe I should have realised that she was so good for me, but then I have now also met some really lovely ladies again. Oh Bee !?!?

I wish I had realised that Sweet Singles existed many years ago !!!

I am totally convinced now that I wish to live with and marry a Thai girl. Of this, I am certain, so at least I have confirmed my belief and slowly am realising just what beauty of heart and soul and body there is, in so many truly lovely people. Maybe I am not quite ready for marriage, but I am certainly ready to find a partner, friend and lover, who might well lead to marriage soon.

The ladies in your organisation are amongst the loveliest I have met on my trips to Thailand or anywhere else come to that. ANY of those mentioned above, with the exception of Ice, would make me proud to be their partner truthfully.

I would now love to get to know these girls better, as I feel such warmth from them and for them.

Having been married twice already, makes me more cautious than I really want to be, but for the sake of the ladies (and myself), I want to be as sure as anyone ever can. I don`t want to rush into what seems like a perfect partnership (as Ice had done so quickly with her marriage) as I thought I had found this before and I was wrong both times, but then they WERE British girls and they really were VERY different.

I feel I could love all of these ladies in different ways. Time (and I hope not too much of it) will help me, I am sure, to find my dream from Sweet Singles. I feel it is getting nearer for me and I am very happy about this.

Ok, finally I thank you again for all your understanding and patience with me and I hope that now you have finished reading this mail, you can rest your eyes for a while !!!!???

Thanks Bee, you`re a star !!!

Barry x 

 

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From: "Robert

Dear Cherry,
I apologise very greatly for not being in contact with you before this. Time
goes by and I get tied up with work. Thank you very much for the help you
provided on my visit to your office. I appreciate your efforts to find the
right lady for me. I have kept  in contact with some of the ladies I met.
Maybe they are the right lady and I like them, but my time in Thailand is
very short. I need more time to know them better. The only lady I loved and
knew I wanted to marry was Tan from my first visit  --
but that is another story as she has found her man.

I hope I can visit Thailand again in October.

Thanks again for your help,
Robert

Queensland 4121 Australia.