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Subject : Hot news about your selected lady.
Dear John
Yu has come to meet with a male member who
corresponded with her for
the past 5-6 months at our office on Monday 23 Sep 02 but he doesn't seem
to want to have a serious relationship with her after meeting face to face.
He is now contacting and spending time with a new lady that he met
at our office and never corresponded with before.
So Yu open to a new relationship and will be happy to meet with you in
person. Anyway, she seem to be discouraged in corresponding now as the
experiece that she gained by corresponding with someone for many months told
her that corresponding doesn't help her to be sucessful in having a serious
relationship with her man and doesn't help her in getting to know the true
feelings of him at all until they meet face to face.
Before his arrival , she really wish that he would get married with her and
she was ready to make a commitment with him and didn't want to correspond
with anyone else but him as the correspondence between
them seem to be very wonderful . Both of them truely belived that they will
end up getting married and he also told us that he didn't want to meet and
spend time with any one else but her for his first few days to Thailand.
But after meeting together for about 10-20 minutes he doesn't wish to see
her anymore but choose to spend time with other lady in stead. the wonderful
correspondence that they had together for 5-6 months is nothing within 10 -20 minutes
after meeting. They almost didn't even know what to say, what to ask each other as
they talked about almost everying before arrival already.
So you choose guess that how disappointed the lady could feel about
corresponding, anyway this can be a good experience in her life and teach
her to open her mind to others until she will meet and spend time with him
in person and know exactly that he and her really like each other, get along
well and the chemistry is right because things that she expected to be
happened before meeting may not be happened after meeting. It is not
too late to start a new hope again after corresponding for 5-6 months and she has not yet
given up her hope and her sweet dream to have someone in her life.
***In the past, some English gentleman wrote to 5 ladies, there were 2 ladies replied to him but one lady who didn't reply for whatever reason she didn't let us know and she just wish to meet with him in person only. After corresponding with the 2 ladies who wrote back and forth for almost 7 months then he arrived in Thailand and met with them in person. He was attracted to the lady who never replied to his email the best and ended up getting married with her. The other 2 who put a lot of effort to write for months were disappointed.
***Many gentlemen also wrote to the ladies for many months but never shown up in Thailand to meet with them and this disappointed the ladies and make them discouraged also. This is a reason why some or many ladies seem to focus on men who are visiting Thailand than those who are very good at writing.
***Something that may help to save your time and the ladies' time and will not have to hurt the ladies'feelings so much.
1.Before arrival, you may pick or choose to write to some interesting ladies of your selection and see if anyone interested in you and would like to meet with you. ( Many times, one of your selected lady can be the right one for you but sometimes your selection may not always be the right one for you so you should be openminded to some other that sweet singles may introduce to you too.)
2.If some, most or all write back to you or you have been informed that they are interested in meeting with you then TRY TO COME to meet and talk with your selected ladies face to face as soon as possible or as soon as you can travel to Thailand first, then select the one that you like the best to spend time to get to know each other and if things work out OK. You and her like each other very much, get along well after meeting and spending time together then you can make a commitment to only that lady (But you can still keep the second choice, third choice or 4th choice in your mind in case something may be changed in the future with the first choice.)
3.You may decide to marry her if you are really sure about her after spending time together for your first trip in Thailand.
4. If you don't yet decide to marry that favorite lady and after you go back to your country, at least now you know that which one that you like the best, which one you would like to have a serious relationship with so you can focus on corresponding with only her to keep the relationship active and you don't have to waste your time to write to many others and the other ladies of your choice will not have to waste their time to correspond with you for months and ended up disappointing after meeting as you selected only one favorite lady.
5. Come to spend more time with her again in Thailand as much as you like or until you can be sure of her. In some situation, some gentleman may change his mind to other new lady after coming to Thailand for a few times. If not then he and her could become a new happy couple in the near future.....
Yours sincerely,
Sweet Singles Thailand
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